Heartwarming Youth Soccer Advice
FTLOS is home to some of the best soccer content on the web. I stumbled upon the best youth development quote. It’s called the root, the stem & the flower. I wish I knew where it came from. It is truly heartwarming youth soccer advice.
What to know:
- The best youth development quote I’ve ever read.
- Patience is a virtue.
- Don’t chase glory young.
The Root
On the wall of the Japanese Youth Training Center, I saw a picture of a flower, including its stem and root system. I asked the director for the center about it and he said, “The first priority for the athlete is to train his root system; this part, which is underground and not seen, is the base for the plant and for the athlete. It represents his attitude, his heart, his work habits, his integrity, and all of the qualities that do not receive immediate attention from others, but are critical for success that endures the test of time.
The Stem
“The stem, which represents the physical condition and athleticism of the athlete, is the second priority. We see athletic ability as we see the stem of the flower, even if it does not attract as much attention as the bloom, it is the critical link between the roots and the flower.
The Flower
“The flower, the third priority, represents the players’ strokes. We are initially attracted by the appearance of the strokes, but they can only succeed over a period of time with a strong root system and a well-working stem.”
I tell my players that confidence is equal to self-concept and self-respect. You see your opponent as you compete, but you feel yourself. Therefore, a player’s self-concept, which is only developed by the root systems, is always the first priority in a long-term training program.
Think of the quick-growing corn stalk that is impressive for one season and then dies. Its roots are very shallow and easily ripped to the ground. The Dutch tulip bulb is completely opposite. Its blossoms are pruned early and often, each time sending nourishment back to the root system, until that bulb is large enough and strong enough to produce year after year. The strong oak tree – with as many roots underground as it has limbs above ground – is another example, taking years to develop.
Society often teaches youngsters that the bottom line and end results are what matters, and that if they can get something more quickly, then all the better.
In training, players and coaches should remember that although growth may be underground and out of direct sight, the root system requires the greatest emphasis and care to produce beautiful blossoms and success season after season.
A good teacher does not promise quick successes, but rather understands the great importance of long-term growth and character development early in a youngster’s career.
– written by unknown
